Quoting 2 Bloggers

Was linked by this young man (with very messy hair!, I LIKE), "Everything I Say and Do is Right". So better listen to him right??

Some of the things he wrote struck a chord with me:

"There seems to be an inexhaustible amount of people complaining about how they want a girl/boyfriend, kids, or whatever to make them less lonely."

Hmmm.....

Which makes me think, how irresponsible people can be if they chose kids to feel less lonely. Kids are a huge responsible given by God. They are not there to fill up VOID!

And of course there are slu* and bitc*** and err I don't know what they call it for guy version. Who would grab just any Tom, Dick & Hairy err I don't know what they call it for girl version. Just to fill up their VOID. Then later realized that they are not really in love!
I mean come on!, only kids would think. "Oh we had so much in common!" "I LOVE YOU!"
and "Oh we share the same taste in food, we both don't eat fat stuff" "I LOVE YOU!"
and "Oh you fill my emptiness" "I LOVE YOU!"
and *"Oh after listening to your many sob stories, I suddenly feel something for you!"
and the stupid list goes on.

Fact is too much in common is BORING! And we do need fat stuff every once in a while. Emptiness will sometimes be there especially if you've been married for a long time. But its up to you to make it work. *And Yes seriously, this is a real life experience. A friend of mine fall in love with a girl, only after this girl tells him lots of her life sobs (this friend of mine also funny! That is not called LOVE. It is called KESIAN!!) Which later found out was all fake!! I mean..., this fu***** girl is so pathetic! She can only get guys to fall for her through listening to all her fake sobs. And not her of who she really is! I'm like sorry for her though.
Anyway, what I am trying to say is...., make sure that you are in love not just because of the above mentioned. Oh I'm not sure bout the last breed. Get a P.I. for that one-lar ok?

Then when you are already married, now I like to quote Cik Suen

" penat2 bercinta, ader aje la yg silap, esp. the part where infidility comes in. pantang si pompuan tuh slack sikit (e.g tak lawo, tak stylo, tak pandai dressing, tak manje), pegi carik pompuan lain. padahal, bley je bawak berbincang and sort things out *sigh* can't really trust anyone, sebenarnye."

So pikir sendiri ah....

For now I'm gonna get myself some puffy, jackass-looking shoes. As suggested by Trevor. Cause though I'm married. I am going through some serious loneliness of my own. I'm working something out, but to no avail. So I'm gonna get me some jackass-looking shoes and do some serious thinking. *BIG TIME SIGH*